I see a lot of away messages and profiles about how you need to act and go out and do something if you ever want anything to happen. Let me be the one to tell you that these are utter and terrible lies. Most of the things that have happened to me, most of the really good things, have all happened accidentally. I honestly didn’t do anything. I didn’t leave the house one day and think to myself “I’m gonna really make it happen today.” The main reason is that “it” is a hugely vague term. Hey if you know what you want and you go out and get it, good on you. But for me, perhaps for many people with me, I have no clue what I want. So I’ll just see what happens and if I stumble onto something nice, then I’ll be pleasantly surprised. So really, don’t seize the day. Just relax.